You want to help your parents do their estate planning. After all, it's going to have a drastic impact on you. One thing you're concerned about is that they never discuss what they want for end-of-life care, meaning you're not sure how you'll make those decisions when the time comes.
We can choose the house that we buy, the neighborhood we live in and the way that we decorate our home. But unfortunately, we cannot control who we will be living next to and the disputes that they will engage in. Neighbors can have a large impact on our quality of life, with some becoming our closest friends, and others becoming nuisances with the ability to impinge on our daily lives.